Identifying Signs of Abuse
December 9th, 2008 by Perry
Aimed at parents, eHow has put together a list that might help them identify signs of potential drug abuse. Although parents are the main focus, this could also be used by anyone who is concerned about a friend or relative.
Communication will always be the number one way to find out. When approached directly, there are many techniques addicts will use to deflect the question; subject switching, instant combativeness or feigning ignorance. The trick is to not start the conversation off in an accusatory tone, as that instantly puts the person you’re worried about in a defensive position and will make them question your true intentions.
With that said, the article wisely cautions against jumping to any conclusions:
Don’t jump to conclusions. Virtually everything listed in this article are normal phases when growing up. You’re looking for combinations. Use sound judgement and trust your instincts.
In almost every scenario, except parenting, the hardest part for a friend or relative showing concern is whether or not it’s their job to become involved in the first place. You must always weigh the safety and concern factor versus trust and friendship, all of which may be jeopardized.
Obviously, lists like these are a start and possible help, but there is no simple way to approach someone you’re worried about. Try to be understanding and see where it goes from there.
Just Say No to Partying Alone
December 11th, 2006 by Alex
A study released late last week suggests that those with social drug tendencies will be a lot better off, both physically and mentally, then those who use alone.
Whether it’s drinking, cigarettes or smoking weed – social and physical drawbacks can be directly linked to those who party alone. The study involved 6,000 students from California & Oregon who were surveyed about their substance use over a 9 year period.
Here’s what researchers found – people who drank, used cigarettes or smoked marijuana alone were:
- less physically healthy
- less likely to graduate from college
- more likely to have substance abuse issues
It’s not looking too good for the loners out there. So, moral of the story is to get messed up with your friends and everything will be A Ok.
[via LA Times]
